Pause.
This concept has seemed so foreign over the past few years. With the rush of school, graduating, school again, then graduating; all this intermixed with travel, work, volunteering, relationships, a serious relationship that has turned into a marriage that I am extremely blessed by... there are so many elements to this crazy busy life I've had over the past few years but pause has not been one of them.... I have certainly had my occasional rests but I feel like for the first time in more than a decade I am finally taking a pause.
Hans has been supportive of this pause and I am so grateful for it. I am still getting things done but I have been able to go through things and throw things away. I have gone through my wardrobe and let go of clothing that for almost no reason I have dragged around since high school. I have read through books I have set aside with the idea of someday getting through them and I have truly rested in a way that was somehow more than sleep. I needed this pause. There is so much life ahead of me even though I've already had amazing adventures. I have accomplished things and experienced things that I am still shocked and excited about but it wasn't until this pause that I am finally getting that I can make sure that I am prayerfully making this sincere decision about the next phases of my life. I have been sincere and thoughtful in the midst of business but there is something to be said for taking a pause, stopping the noise, taking a deep breath and just trusting God about the future while entrusting Him with the past.
I have certainly not lived a perfect life. I have made mistakes even when well intended... but the truth is I have come to a place where I am letting that go too. I trust that God is bigger than the mistakes I have made. I know His grace is sufficient to cover the errs in my ways and words and that his love can break through the arrogance and stupidity through which I have acted at times and the misguided or unloving things I have said and done and that God is bigger than all of that and can still be glorified. I do not take His greatness and grace as an excuse or reason not to try but I do take it as a reason not to take my errors and misguided well intentions into my future as baggage. I can let this all go... God is so good to be bigger than my errors and bigger than my misguided good intentions. I know that I can trust God fully in these days ahead.... Graduate school, jobs, relationships.... all these things are so small compared to the surpassing grace of God and he has each of them covered completely. I am excited as I continue in this pause to see what God is going to do... 2014 is going to be an incredible year and I am excited to see in what ways God plans for it to be so.
So I encourage you, if you are able, make the time to take a pause.... Sit in the presence of God and just be silent, patient, and there.... if you know me you know how very difficult this can truly be.... But thankfully God is bigger than that too.... So I'm planning to continue on in this pause... Yes wrapping up graduate school applications and applying for jobs is not exactly pausing but in all of this I hope to do so with grace and peace moving forward in full embrace of the knowledge that God will place Hans and I wherever it is that we need to be. I am so at peace in this knowledge.... Prayerfully we move forward. Prayerfully I continue in this pause.